It Only Looks Obvious AFTERWARDS

For seven months, I ran two versions of my business at the same time because I was too scared to shut one of them down.

One was making dependable money and draining the life out of me; the other was exciting, unproven, and being built so close to real time that my clients would ask for something on one call and I would spend hours making sure it existed by the next one.

In January 2025 had launched a group program built around 15 custom GPTs that walked clients through four phases of business growth: strategize, scale, systematize, and optimize.

I was still very new to AI and I was usually about two steps ahead of the people paying me to lead them through it while the learning curve felt straight up for all of us.

But I kept learning as fast as I could, creating whatever my clients needed next, and trying not to let my fear that I wasn’t providing enough value scare me out of growing this new offer.

I know that sounds scrappy and inspiring now, but let me tell you that it definitely did NOT always feel that way when I was scrambling to build on the fly.

What made this whole thing harder was that I hadn’t stopped offering online business management implementation services. That work brought in solid monthly revenue working with people I genuinely loved, which is a remarkably persuasive combination even when the work attached to it has become an energy-suck that makes you miserable.

So, for seven long months. I would pour my energy into the program, see what it could become, and then turn around and keep doing the work I already knew I didn’t want because walking away from dependable money felt downright stupid.

Of course, from where I sit now, closing the OBM implementation side looks like the obvious choice and I can say that confidently because I already know how the story turned out, but at the time, I did not have that luxury.

I had solid revenue in one hand and a program I was still building in the other, and I had no guarantee that choosing the second one wouldn’t become a very expensive lesson.

Every Opportunity Looks Like a Risk

You may be looking at your own version of this decision right now.

There’s an offer you’ve outgrown that still pays well, a direction you can’t stop thinking about, or a change that makes complete sense until you remember that you’re the one who has to live with the consequences if it doesn’t work.

Everyone else gets to evaluate your options with pretend money and imaginary free time, but you’re the one looking at the actual numbers, the commitments you’ve already made, and how much capacity you really have to carry a change before it starts paying you back.

That doesn’t mean the safest-looking option is automatically the responsible one.

Staying where you are has a cost too, but it’s sneaky because you pay it a little at a time through work that drains you, ideas you keep postponing, and opportunities you never have enough room to explore.

We would all love for the right opportunity to arrive with references, guaranteed results, and a tasteful little sign from God confirming that this is definitely the answer, but business is rarely that considerate.

Most of the time, you have to decide while the promising option still looks suspiciously like the risky one.

That’s why one line from a Hormozi clip I saw the other day stuck with me: “Opportunities only look like opportunities in hindsight. In the moment, they look like risk.”

While he was attaching this directly to financial advice, it applies to ALL business decisions because, ultimately, they all relate back to finances in some way, shape, or form.

And this cycle doesn’t stop once you’ve made enough money or finally feel like you know what you’re doing!

From filing the LLC paperwork, to making your first $100K, to building a multi-six-figure business and whatever comes after that, there will always be another decision asking you to risk what’s working now for the possibility of something better.

Apparently, one major business identity crisis around my signature offer wasn’t enough, and I did it all over again when I converted the entire program into a Notion-based program.

Now I am soooo glad I made the switch, but I was scared to death of rebuilding something I had already worked incredibly hard to create, and “I can see a better way” is very different from “I have proof this will work.”

And whatever decision you’re staring at right now, the same will be true for you: people may eventually call it the obvious choice, but they won’t be the ones making it before the proof exists.

It will look obvious when you can see what survived.

Your Weekly Challenge

  1. Look at the options in front of you that feel risky right now and pick one to examine honestly.
  2. Write down the pros and cons, but don’t limit the “risk” column to what could happen if you choose it. Include what staying where you are is already costing you in money, time, energy, capacity, or momentum, because maintaining the status quo is still a decision and it isn’t automatically the free one.
  3. Then ask yourself: Could this be an opportunity I’ll only recognize in hindsight?

If you need help getting out of your own head and looking at the decision clearly, use the Refill Prompt inside the Notion AI School community.

And if you are already looking back at a decision that was once a risk, but turned out to be an opportunity in disguise, email me or send me a DM and share it with me! Because I know some of your best business stories probably looked a little questionable in the middle too.